Chasing The Belt
In Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, like most other martial arts, the white belt signifies the beginning, a starting point, a blank slate in which to build very basic skills, hopefully that follow you throughout the remainder of your journey. Being a white belt should be done with enthusiasm. Enthusiastically embracing the opportunities upon which to build a great foundation, all the while training with great people. However for some their view of the white belt can be quite the opposite
Some look at the white
belt as a means to an end. You know the type, when’s the next test or
when can I become a blue belt or if only I were a blue belt like
him…etc. It’s this view which can cheat you out of the
opportunities previously mentioned. But don’t misunderstand me. Just
because you have these occasional thoughts, whether private or out loud,
doesn’t make you bad in either your game or journey. However it can
cheapen the experience, if this is the sole focus and motivation. The
ends to a mean mentality can ultimately result in frustration or possible
departure from Jiu Jitsu all togethor.
To be transparent, I
sometimes find myself in that mindset. However I have to occasionally
remind myself it really isn’t about the color or amount of stripes
but it’s more about developing the skills, relationships and patience to
be a better BJJ practitioner and person. Because when I stop chasing the
belt and embrace the journey, it truly has life changing benefits.
I for one have
experienced those benefits. First and foremost, I’m physically
active again. I look forward to going to class and physically
pushing this forty-nine year old body on the mats. Rolling with guys
much younger or heavier than me. Training partners who always demand more of me. It truly has transformed me both physically and mentally. I can recall, just even in the
last couple of years, of how much of an asshole I could be. And
because of BJJ, those tendencies have subtly left my being. Don’t
get me wrong, it still creeps up at times. However because of a good network of
friends and family, I’m more apt to receive the correction. And all because I’m
participating in an activity, requiring complete humility in order to be
successful.
So the next time you
walk onto the mats, do like I have been doing and remind yourself why you’re
here. Remind yourself how grateful you are for that one person or reason
you started Jiu Jitsu. Remind yourself about the great people that
surround you. Remind yourself that just by showing up another day,
without quitting, makes you a better practitioner than the day before.
Embrace the opportunities to grow, as the result of being a white belt
but ultimately…Stop chasing the belt and embrace the journey!
Peace, Love & Chokes
Will h.
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